Life is full of struggles. It doesn’t matter how much money you make, how you were raised, or how smart you are. Shit happens. People make decisions that often seem right at the time but find out at some point later end up being wrong. Good times often lead to bad times and love often turns to……not love.
We are human. We are imperfect. I think mostly we do the best we can and sometimes simply screw up not meaning to hurt ourselves or those we care about – but do. It sucks. One thing I hope for those that end up hurt – or at least not understanding is realizing they are the same and also are imperfect, make good and bad decisions, and screw up sometimes negatively affecting those they care about.
One thing I’ve learned is REGRET is pointless and a complete waste of time. While recognizing mistakes can be a learning experience, focusing on the past is an effort in futility. You cannot change the past no matter how hard you try. What you have is RIGHT NOW and tomorrow and the rest of your life.
So, forget what has happened and take advantage of RIGHT NOW and kick some ass to make your future the best it can be.
I know I am.
You?
Rourke
fall forward.. get up…. you can’t steer a parked car
fix what needs fixing if anything
hang in there
GG58
Very true GG58!
👍👍 Absolutely correct.
Dear JR and anyone on this site-if ever you need a ear – know I am available. We all make mistakes and do some very loving,positive things in life. We live the questions as we seek the solutions.
My current advice (at age 72) is to keep yourself is as good of physical condition as you can and to do what makes you happy in moderation) I wish I had done more camping and hiking,canoeing and horseback riding while I had the ability)No one in hospice where I worked as Chaplain ever said I wish I had spent more time time at work.
With prayers JR for you and whatever you are struggling with.
Arlene
I hear you JR. I hear you.May we all learn and work together as one. Amen
This is an off topic comment. Just want to see what everyone else thinks.
We all know about the raid on Trumps Florida home. I think most of us think the whole effort is to attempt to fabricate charges against him to eliminate him from running for President in 24. What if, he was indicted and eliminated from running? What if every Conservative just opted out of the election process? Anyone have any ideas on that?